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This now 13-year-old boy was living in a shanty
with his very ill parents who were suffering from TB .
Due to their severe illness they were unable to care for
him. From a very
early age he has been the main provider and caretaker for his
parents. In order to
bring food home, he had been begging in the streets and was
often beaten by bullies. Due to severe malnutrition resulting in
lack of basic vitamins and minerals, his body did not grow
properly, meaning he is small for his age.
He has been one of the most aggressive boys in the home due to
his constant need to survive the bullies – he has a temper
issue and it has taken a lot of patience working with him and
getting him to understand that violence is not part of his new
life. He is
extremely athletic and is ready to play a game anytime and
anywhere: his
favorite sport is soccer, which he loves so much that he will
make soccer balls out of plastic bags in order to be able to get
a game going. No,
there are no soccer balls available, but these children are
incredibly inventive. He is always willing to help tend the
garden, feed [and chase] the chickens, and has a laugh that
is so contagious he manages to get anyone in the entire house to
laugh. He attends
school daily now where his greatest challenge is trusting his
teachers and avoiding fights.
NOTE: Our goal
in Vima Lupwa Home has always been to empower Zambians to help
themselves. Recently
a distant relative of Perfious came to Vima Lupwa Home
requesting him to come live with them.
Unfortunately the happy reunion was short-lived, as this
relative brought him from one orphanage to another trying to
“sell him” for money. We
are presently in the process of working with the Zambian Social
Welfare office to have Perfious returned to Vima Lupwa Home.
Needless to say, this situation has caused a great set-back in
the trust that he was learning while in our home.
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